Life is not easier. Well this is the topic that match with my condition last weeks ago. On that day my friend just got failed from her entry interview to the university. She was sad and suddenly her sadness status appeared in my facebook. Directly, I called her.
Actually this was not the first time. The first time is she was getting dump from her boy. I said to her "Why you are crying for him? U just got dumped from him?" She said that She is a woman and woman has a different heart from the man. And on that situation I thought that not at all the men have a strong heart like a rock, sometimes the man will cry despite he doesn't fall his tears, he cries on his heart. After that I explained to her some types of man. And this is just my assumption of man, I am not gonna blame man because I am a man also. Well...
1. The man who is look cool, but he doesn't much speak.
the man like this we can figure it by look his style. if his style like a normal guy, we can define it into the good guy, but if the style is opposite exactly this guy is a jerk.
2. The man who is like nerd.
Of course that is a nerd, doesn't much speak, but some time this type almost hook many girls. But don't worry, if u create a commitment with him u can really be the lucky woman.
3. The ugly man.
Ok well, u can define it by ur self.
After I explained it, I made a joke until she was laughing..
OK back at the university. She was very sad, and she can't expect that she was failed just in the interview. She realize that she was the unluckiest person. I said to her in the phone " This is the destiny, i mean look I am here now, I can't realize that i want to be, but I was struggling in the high school to get it, and after i got it for 1 year, I moved here. Impossible right? because this is destiny."
She started to thinking but for one more time she told me " Why not from the beginning test I am failed? Now, just one step more I get my wish."
I replied " Because this is the destiny, u can't guess the destiny want to be, u can't guess the destiny will be,u just go with the flow and follow the destiny, and keep struggling to find out where ur destiny is."
She opened and changed her mind that she is not unluckiest person. And finally she figured out that this interview and this university is not her destiny.
We can't guess where is our destiny, but we must keep struggling to find out where our destiny is.
Actually this was not the first time. The first time is she was getting dump from her boy. I said to her "Why you are crying for him? U just got dumped from him?" She said that She is a woman and woman has a different heart from the man. And on that situation I thought that not at all the men have a strong heart like a rock, sometimes the man will cry despite he doesn't fall his tears, he cries on his heart. After that I explained to her some types of man. And this is just my assumption of man, I am not gonna blame man because I am a man also. Well...
1. The man who is look cool, but he doesn't much speak.
the man like this we can figure it by look his style. if his style like a normal guy, we can define it into the good guy, but if the style is opposite exactly this guy is a jerk.
2. The man who is like nerd.
Of course that is a nerd, doesn't much speak, but some time this type almost hook many girls. But don't worry, if u create a commitment with him u can really be the lucky woman.
3. The ugly man.
Ok well, u can define it by ur self.
After I explained it, I made a joke until she was laughing..
OK back at the university. She was very sad, and she can't expect that she was failed just in the interview. She realize that she was the unluckiest person. I said to her in the phone " This is the destiny, i mean look I am here now, I can't realize that i want to be, but I was struggling in the high school to get it, and after i got it for 1 year, I moved here. Impossible right? because this is destiny."
She started to thinking but for one more time she told me " Why not from the beginning test I am failed? Now, just one step more I get my wish."
I replied " Because this is the destiny, u can't guess the destiny want to be, u can't guess the destiny will be,u just go with the flow and follow the destiny, and keep struggling to find out where ur destiny is."
She opened and changed her mind that she is not unluckiest person. And finally she figured out that this interview and this university is not her destiny.
We can't guess where is our destiny, but we must keep struggling to find out where our destiny is.
2 comments:
iya bener, kita harus percaya kalo kita akan menemukan takdir kita. meskipun jalan yg d tempuh itu terjal.
aku ikut sedih atas teman mu zal. krn aq pnh merasakan hal yang sama. dengan org yg dingin. tp setiap org itu beda2. mgkn aja memang dia bkn yg terbaik untuk kita. dan percaya Allah menunjukan mana yg tepat untk kita :)
ya.. kita harus percaya bahwa Tuhan telah menentukan apa yg ada pada hidup kita itu jauh lebih baik dari pada yg kita pikirkan.
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